okay but what is it with fandoms and eating disorders ?? like wtf i can barely read a bts fic without jimin having bulimia or smith. same thing with exo and xiumin. i get that they have had weight issues in the past but all this glorification of ed is super damaging?? not only to readers but like also the affected member as well. honestly this is why i stay away from fix it’s bc of this when the writers have no idea what it’s like.