Category: baekhyun

Funny how people were preaching about loving y…

Funny how people were preaching about loving your idols and respecting other idols after what happened recently, yet people trying to bring Baekhyun down as if it wasn’t affecting him emotionally being dragged for something he didn’t do or say. It was an act of pure hatred and disrespect towards Baekhyun. Sadly people believe in those words more than in his good intentions.

Admin Note: I do have to warn you all that thi…

Admin Note: I do have to warn you all that this opinion has more depression talk than the other Baekhyun-situation opinions already posted. Please skip this one if depression is a trigger for you. 

The level of vitriol that Baekhyun and his poor fan are receiving as a result of him trying to comfort her over her depression is absurd.  I say this as somebody who had depression for over a decade, since I was diagnosed as a child, and as somebody with a number of friends who have also suffered from it.  Granted, he didn’t necessarily phrase everything the best way, but everybody suffering from depression needs different ways of being approached at different times depending on what exactly was going on.  The fan seemed perfectly happy with the way he treated her, which was why she shared the experience in the first place, and so it seems that what she needed wasn’t the “perfect answer” but more somebody who would listen and care.  Even if you’ve suffered it yourself, or if you’re a psychologist, you still make mistakes when it comes to helping people in that kind of situation no matter how much experience you have.  Also, what helps one person, or what helps you, is not necessarily going to help another person. There will, of course, be some people who, in that fan’s situation, would not have been at all comforted by what he said, but having dealt with many people with many different attitudes towards mental illness, including “stop faking it, it doesn’t exist”, I can tell you that there is a massive difference between somebody whose attitude is “I’ve never experienced it myself so I don’t understand it and I can’t but I want to help you” and takes an interest in you, and somebody whose attitude is “I’ve never experienced it so I don’t understand it” and sort of shoves it away, or, worse still, somebody who thinks that they understand but actually doesn’t, because that can do a lot more harm than good however well-intentioned.  At least Baekhyun was honest with where he was coming from and up front about the short comings he felt he had going in to the conversation, even if it was clumsily phrased (and his apology seemed very sincere).  I’ve personally been on the receiving end of that phrase at least a dozen times, and the thing that made the difference was the person’s tone and attitude.  The only person who can judge that in this situation is the fan he was talking to.  Handling that kind of conversion when somebody comes to you with their problems is also extremely difficult, more so if you don’t know them well or if you aren’t trained to do it.  The important thing is he managed to comfort her.  I’m also worried about the fan now that people are attacking both of them over the situation.  Imagine how she must be feeling, that somebody who helped her find a moment of joy while she’s struggling with a horrible illness.  It’s so cruel to hurt somebody already suffering over something like that.  I hope it’s not affecting her too much, and also that she’ll be able to conquer her depression sometime soon.

I can’t stand it how Baekhyun apologized for d…

I can’t stand it how Baekhyun apologized for doing nothing wrong because a hater translated wrong what he said on purpose so that he would get hate. And not only Baekhyun apologized but also the fan who had depression. I feel really bad for her as she may now feel responsible for all the hate Baekhyun gets. I can’t believe that the one who mistraslated Baek’s words never said at least a simple sorry. I hope the best for the fan and to overcome depression soon and for Baekhyun to stay strong.

It is disgusting how people hated on Taeyeon a…

It is disgusting how people hated on Taeyeon and Baekhyhn for dating. I still ship them really hard and I hope that they are still together and just hide it very well. I know some may call me delusional but everyone has the right to hope whatever they want right?

the people are starting fanwars over the shit …

the people are starting fanwars over the shit that’s happening with Baekyun is just so annoying. people are so caught up with defending their faves that they can’t see that they’re making everything worse its not about which fandom started it or which fandom did what its just horrible people being shit and real people getting hurt as a result. army, exo-l or not we could use this as an excuse to fight or we could actually learn lessons from this. stop the hate and anger, we’re better than this

I know this is extremely over due, but Susy an…

I know this is extremely over due, but Susy and Baehyuns duet of Dream at the mamas a few years ago was so bad live that it’s pretty much ruined the song for me.

Happy Birthday Park Chanyeol!! 💛

Happy Birthday Park Chanyeol!!
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Back when I was a casual listener of EXO, I noticed Baekhyun had…

Back when I was a casual listener of EXO, I noticed Baekhyun had really good English pronunciation from the little odd lines of english in their songs to the point where I thought he’d been raised in America. I was surprised to find out that he was not. Props to him for practicing his pronounciation!

The main reason a lot of idol actors suck is because they don’t…

The main reason a lot of idol actors suck is because they don’t actually care about acting and therefore put no effort into improving. You have idols like Baekhyun who care about singing so he puts in practice to be a good singer, and his acting is subpar because it’s just something SM shoves him into. Then you have idols like DO who actually enjoy and care about acting, so he trains for it and tries to grow as an actor. It’s just natural that you work harder at things you’re passionate about, subsequently improving at that thing. Honestly I don’t even blame the idols, it’s their companies that make them act when they obviously don’t care about it. (Also I love EXO, I’m just using Baeksoo as an example).

I wish Baekhyun would bring back his Call Me Baby hair. I love…

I wish Baekhyun would bring back his Call Me Baby hair. I love that hairstyle so much!